Sleep training – Night # who the hell knows?

Well, doctor lady can be proud of me for being consistent. If you didn’t know, we are currently working on sleep training. Who knew when entering the world of parenting that sleep is actually a learned skill and not something that babies miraculously start doing on their own. Ok, that sounds funny…yes, babies sleep, but the training part comes in with helping them fall asleep and here’s the kicker, STAYING asleep. That seems to have been the hurdle in our household. The Jman generally falls asleep with no problems. The “staying asleep” part is where we’ve had trouble.

morning nap time
morning nap time

But, for the past month(ish) I have found the plan that works for me and have been sticking to it. I’m happy to report that in the wee hours of the morning when he rises, I have stuck to my guns and he does NOT end up in our bed. The funny thing is, I feel that it actually may be working. All of the books and articles that I’ve read talk about when making a routine/switching a behavior, it can take seven to 10 days. I was thrilled with myself when I made it to the seven day mark! WOOOHOOOOO. But, he was still waking four times a night. So, doctor people, what’s the deal with that? Made it to the 10-day mark….still wasn’t seeing much of a difference.

However, I stayed strong and stuck to the plan. I must clarify that when I say he is waking four times a night, it isn’t a full on scream-fest. It is usually only for a maximum of 10 minutes…and that’s on the long end. When I go in, he’s usually sitting up and rubbing his little eyes. So, I find the binkie, lay him back down, paired with a couple of pats on the bum, and he’s out. But, that means that we are still getting interrupted sleep…even for that short time that he’s waking. And it needs to stop. Mama loves sleep and after a year (almost 13 months now), is ready!

Something happened over the past week though. It started on Tuesday. I rocked him until just about asleep and laid him in the crib. Out at 6:30 p.m. Then, I checked on him before we went to bed, repositioned him so he wasn’t so smooshed and covered him with a blanket. Next time I heard him was 4:30 a.m.! What was this???? Continue reading “Sleep training – Night # who the hell knows?”

Sleep training – night 4.

Too cool to be one
Too cool to be one

J is a year old. Wow. And with each day that has passed since, I still cannot even believe it. Well, being one also means that he had to have his wellness check up. So Friday morning, Husband and I loaded him up and away we went! Husband had to come because I knew there would be vaccinations and I am a wuss. I am not a fan of having to hold him while he gets poked.

Our doctors office is great..always starting the visit with any questions/concerns we may have.  Our first question: can we switch him to a forward facing car seat. Well, he only weighed in at 19 lbs and 4 oz so until he hits 20 lbs he has to stay backwards. He is 29.5 inches long and growing strong! He eats everything in sight…so we will see what we can do to boost up his calories even more. Continue reading “Sleep training – night 4.”

At this time last year…

brand new
brand new

I was a new mom. While many are enjoying their Fourth of July festivities, I was on the natural high of being a new mom. My son was born on July 4, 2012 and today is his first birthday. I am still pinching myself that it is even possible that he is a year old…I know that “they” say time flies, but holy hell…it really does.

So, for my own benefit (and maybe one day J’s), I thought I would write about one of the most amazing days of my life. On July 3, 2012, at 4:30 p.m. I left work for the last time for maternity leave. J wasn’t set to make his appearance until the 10th, so I was looking forward to a little time to do the last minute preparations. Jeez, I hadn’t even purchased a nursing bra at that point! Plus, we had Alyx’s birthday party to get ready for (her birthday is the 8th). But…at 8 p.m. I went into labor. Continue reading “At this time last year…”